Happy New Year! I hope you all had a great Christmas, spending time with your loved ones. Well, as much as you could anyway! So now the festive period is behind us, it’s time to get back to normal and focus on what 2021 has to offer. Including the next celebrated day (by most at least), which is Valentine’s day. Incase you’re struggling to come up with some fantastic date ideas for Valentine’s day this year, here are our top suggestions.
Photography
These days it’s become easier than ever to create your own at home ‘studio’ to take some professional looking photos. So, why not treat your loved one with some kinky photos of yourself. Buy yourself some fab new sexy undies and get creative! What a great little treat for your partner and it won’t even cost you very much to do.
Food
Food is a great addition to any date scenario. Whether that’s cooking your date their favourite meal. Cooking something together. Or even covering each other in chocolate! Find out what your date loves to eat and incorporate that in to the date some how.
Games
Whether you’re having to have a socially distanced first date, or can be together this Valentine’s day, games can be a great way to spend some quality time together. No distractions from the television or phones. Even if you have to play your chosen game via a zoom call. There are so many fab games you can play. From a fun game of strip poker, to the Mr & Mrs games where you find more out about one another. Whatever your choice of game, it’s about spending proper time together, in the moment.
Get Sexy
Not quite as easy to do via a Whatsapp or zoom call but still not impossible! Being sexy and intimate with someone you care about differs alot from couple to couple so it’s really all about what interests you both. Perhaps you enjoy using toys and accessories to get in the mood. If so, there are so many places you can get fun and interesting toys to have a play with.
However, if toys aren’t your thing, how about getting yourself (and/or your partner) some new sexy underwear for your special date. Nothing is more sexy than a new set of lace underwear. Or even a costume of some sort. dressing up in your date’s favourite uniform or as their film/television hero.
Get A Bit Kinky
However, if romance isn’t really your thing and you’re looking for something a bit naughtier, there are many bdsm dating sites out there waiting for you to unleash your cheeky side. It’s all done in a safe way with measures in place to ensure both parties are safe and secure. From bondage and rope play to domination and foot fetishes. These websites have something for everyone’s tastes. So, if this sounds like something you might want to try, be sure to check out My BDSM Hookups mistress dating for more information.
“Kink is subjective,” Vincent, the head of Vermont Alternative Sexuality Education, tells Bustle. “A lot of people try to quantify what kink is and how extreme one act versus another act is. For some people, spanking is extremely hardcore while some people don’t find it to be kinky at all.”
Kinky Stats
- 40% of people consider themselves “Kinky”
- 29% of people want to get more into anal sex
- 24% of people want to get more into role play
- 14% of people wanted to try being a dominatrix
- Almost half the population are willing to bring in a toy to their sexual relationships
- 27% of people have a secret sex act in mind but haven’t told their partner through fear of being ridiculed
- 37% of people have met a partner with a kink and given it a try
Lockdown Dates
With so many of us still in lockdown due to the pandemic, dating is harder than ever. However, there are ways around it! Perhaps you could do a skype or whatsapp video call with your date and watch a film together. Or, you could make some food together instead. There are many ways in which you can be intimate with someone and make lasting memories without needing to be in the same room. Creating a bond with someone without touching can be a great place to begin building your foundation.
Are your dates living up to kinky millennial standards?
What are some of your date ideas for Valentine’s day this year?
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